I just have to share...the ultrasound went great on Friday.
So Quickie has been wavering all week about finding out the gender on Friday. Yes I want to know. No I don't want to know. Back and forth, back and forth. So we are sitting in the doctors office on Friday and he just breaks down. The doctor told us previously that we had to look away. Quickie wasn't really into doing that. He couldn't believe that we could find out and just weren't. He was bothered by someone else knowing what we were having and he didn't know. Drama! Anyway, he gives a pretty convincing argument in the doctors waiting room. His point being that when the baby is born and is happy and healthy, the fact that it's a boy or a girl is going to be lost. Pretty good point and I hadn't thought about it like that. But he left the decision up to me. So we get called back to the doctors office and we get in room number 8 (which is my favorite number).
The craziness of the day, my niece Courtney's surgery, the fear that something is wrong with the baby, it all over comes me and immediately when I lay on the table and see the baby. I start crying. I think I cried the whole time. It was just amazing to see the little booger squirming all over the place. Note: Pictures are posted on the blog.
So we start at the head and work our way down. Everything looks great which is a great relief. The technician didn't really talk last time so we thought there was something wrong. But she was really great this time telling us everything. So Quickie sat there as we held hands and she asked me the dreaded question...do you want to know the gender? Quickie looked at me with such excitement in his eyes and said--it's totally up to you...so I said...YES! Holy cow! I couldn't believe that I just agreed to do something I hadn't wanted to since day one! Sooooo, the tech flashed us a quick shot and when in for a closer look. From that first flash we both knew right away. She focused in and had us guess and we both knew 100% that it was a GIRL! Holy cow! The tech left and as we waiting for the doctor we both just hugged and cried. Okay, I cried but I think he shed a tear or two. I just couldn't believe it. It was so surreal. So the doctor came in and all looked great. She was being stubborn at this point and wouldn't flip. So we couldn't see the "goods" again and she wouldn't flip so the doctor could see the back of the heart. So we get to come back in 4 weeks for another ultrasound which is great news. I can't wait! It's going to be huge at that point so we can probably see a ton more.
ANYWAY, so after the appointment, we were just in total shock. So we went to Babies-r-us to start our registry. We walked around in a daze. Man that store is HUGE! My list was super ultra helpful and I think Quickie was very impressed with my knowledge of exactly what we wanted/needed. Big-ups to you ladies who helped me with that.
After that we went to our typical post-baby-appointment dinner at Cheesecake Factory and talked about the days events. There was so much happiness and shock. We just couldn't get over it. Finding out the gender totally put an identity on little baby T. It's actually a She now. We already have a name picked out (it's a secret). We decided on a girl name a long long time ago so it's just perfect. We just kept looking at each other and flipping out! You couldn't wipe the smiles off our faces :-)
After that Quickie wanted to get some books on Fatherhood so we headed to Barnes & Noble but not before we call all the parents to let them in on the big surprise. My Mom was for sure it was a boy so she was shocked! Everyone was shocked! Kari, my sister was very happy for us and will keep Baby girl T well clothed through her early teens. She has two little girls as well.
Anyway, Quickie picked up a couple books and is blowing through them like Baby girl T is coming out tomorrow. He is very excited.
I can not possibly keep this a secret for much longer! I just had to share!! So everyone knows now!! Woohoo! I am sure by the end of the week, the Pope might know that we are having a girl!